Monday 14 January 2019

More Pemuteran

Our routine in Pemuteran involved starting and ending our days with a combination of swimming, reading and playing Loot. In the mornings we were either collected by a car for a trip or wandered into Pemuteran at some leisurely hour. The kids have devised a complicated underwater sign language using their hands and feet (it was gratifying as a parent to hear them come up with a sign for thank you!) and Leo has come up with the joke of the trip so far: what do you get if you cross Santa and Elsa? Ho ho ho let it go! :)

We’re not sure of the actual name of our street, but we knew it as Jalan Barky Dog named for the many dogs that barked as we passed. The dogs are free range, but are all seemingly well-looked after pets. They’re not aggressive, just a bit barky at strangers. As the week wore on they became less and less bothered barking at us. The dogs we saw around the temples in Pemuteran and Ubud were often hungry looking and sadly in pretty terrible states. There are a few charities trying to help but they don’t seem to have as much traction yet as Soi Dog in Thailand. 

We walked up and down Jalan Barky Dog at least a couple of times every day, enjoying saying hello to all the friendly locals and being completely embedded where the locals live, rather than sequestered in some tourist precinct. We were there to see the beginning of Galungan decorations coming down and to hear a couple of house parties in the evenings, complete with gamelan and chanting on a loudspeaker. It might sound offputting but to a backdrop of thunder and lightning while skinny dipping in our private pool in the dark - it was surreal and atmospheric. Such good memories!

We decided to do one thing every day, a bigger ask than it sounds, but it gave us some direction and plenty of time to relax. One day this meant an afternoon at Menjangan Dynasty, a resort on the white sand/coral beach Pasir Putih - a little taste of how the other half live. Arriving at the resort, security checked our bags and the underside of the car using mirrors!! We swam in the sea and the kids loved the infinity pool with its view over the sea and out to the mountains. The food was great too, although we’re yet to find a beef rendang that rivals our Christmas dinner!

Another day we got up at 5.30am(!!!) for a three-hour walk in the monsoon forest, Bali’s only national park, Taman Nasional Bali Barat. The early start avoided the heat of the day, but not the mosquitoes which were very pleased to see (eat!) us. The walk took us mostly off tracks through the forest. At times we crawled under low-hanging trees and the kids did some swinging on vines and ‘abseiled’ down a rock. Just like Tarzan :) We saw a large troupe (collective noun?) of grey monkeys that just wandered past, unlike those in the Ubud monkey forest they paid us no attention. It was an amazing sight! We were also lucky to see the rarer and more timid black monkeys playing high up in the trees, and even a road-side monitor lizard from the car. 

We had a late afternoon trip to a trio of temples. Pura Melanting was quiet, peaceful and had stunning Hindu designs. At the monkey temple Pura Pulaki, we watched monkeys fight each other and steal and speedily dispose of offerings brought by locals. Here people pray inside fully fenced areas as the monkeys are a touch aggressive, kind of like a reverse zoo with the humans inside the cages. The final temple was on the seaward side of the road and would have had a beautiful view of the sunset had it not been overcast. The slightly pink clouds were still nice though.

We did manage to get our snorkel off Pemuteran beach too, in the middle this time. They’ve won acclaim by stimulating coral growth using electricity, which seems to be working as coral grows off skeletal underwater structures, shaped like bowls, slides, stars, alligators and all sorts. As ‘off the beach’ snorkelling goes, it is very good indeed and certainly worth the time to do. We spent most of our time at a site called Biorock but there are several others nearby as well.

The kids and I squeezed in a jewellery making class with the lovely Louie and her sister Anna from a local jewellery shop. We’re all now the proud owners of new handmade bracelets and /or anklets. It was a very pleasant couple of hours making and chatting. Louie told us that the locals like the slow pace of Pemuteran and lower tourist numbers, although employment and cost are an issue. They’re concerned about foreign ownership of land, which is making it prohibitively expensive for them, and are cautiously optimistic about the new airport, hopeful it will bring jobs for local people. 

We had our final Pemuteran dinner of babi guling, a Balinese dish of suckling pig, and chicken skewers at Frangipani. Delicious!!

We’ve loved our time in Pemuteran especially the incredibly friendly people, the open air restaurants (we’re only really inside to sleep), Heihei the villa-visiting chicken, our daily great coffee from Bali Balance cafe, the helpful and kind Wayan and her husband Putu, our little pool shaded by frangipani trees, listening to huge thunder claps and the gamelan music that sounds remarkably like deep house. Leo will particularly miss his big plate of mango each morning! 


It was great to have a full week in Pemuteran as it took a couple of days to figure out everything worked and once we did it was a fantastically peaceful stop with plenty to do. Like always, we can tell just how good Pemuteran was by the speed conversation naturally turned to how soon we might return. Great moments.

Finding our feet in Pemuteran, and a special birthday

Our trip to Pemuteran on the north west coast of Bali took a large chunk of the day. We flew to Denpasar then drove what should have been four hours but turned out to be more like five with the traffic. Just as well Jaya, our driver, put on some ‘good’ music (think Taylor Swift and Ed Sheehan remixes and a bit of Westlife thrown in) that Eleanor happily sang along to, and the kids had expended some energy surfing before we left Lombok. 

The drive took us over the mountains via Bedugal and through numerous little villages. The mountains were shrouded in cloud and misty rain so motorcyclists were wearing rain ponchos. People are always going places and seem busy, but the poverty is obvious as homes range from concrete or brick to very basic shacks. There’s rubbish everywhere. 

We stopped for dinner in a huge restaurant in Buleleng, where the cross-mountains road comes out on the north coast. It had a sea-side pool and looked well set up for tourism. We all went European that night - the kids advanced their plans to eat all the pasta in Bali, Adrian enjoyed chicken ‘Gordon Blue’ and I tried the pesto pasta - it was yummy but the raw garlic was an interesting touch that left me concerned no one would want to come near me for days! Fortunately all was okay as it turned out!

It was dark when we drove into Pemuteran, but we could see lots of restaurants and dive shops lining the main road. We somehow knew we’d like it. This time we stayed in a little villa we’d found on Airbnb. It is about a kilometre up a side street off the main road. We arrived after dark and I really began to wonder if the driver had taken a wrong turn as we slowed for pothole after pothole and drove past only local houses. We knew we were in the right place when we pulled up outside a house with a lit pathway and Wayan to greet us. 

We were in Pemuteran for a whole week so we had plenty of time to do everything we wanted. This was our budget stop, but by being off the main road we could still have a private house with a pool. It was far cheaper than our other accommodation but very comfortable, and absolutely luxurious compared with our cheap cheap hostel in Chiang Mai three years ago. It took us a couple of days to find our feet and figure out how everything worked but we came to love the villa, and Pemuteran.

We celebrated Eleanor’s 10th birthday on our first day. Wow a whole decade already! We’re so proud of our strong, determined, funny, confident and smart girl. She’s excited to have hit double figures and feels very grown up. 

Unsurprisingly Eleanor had us up bright and early on the big day. We gave her a bracelet she’d admired in the little shop at Sempiak Villas back in Selong Blanak, and a new Percy Jackson book. We have a family tradition that if we’re on holiday, the birthday girl or boy chooses what we do for the day, something she’d been eagerly anticipating. 

Eleanor wanted a family massage - lucky us! - to have her hair braided, and to eat pasta. Interestingly, that’s exactly what she did on her 7th birthday on Koh Lipe in Thailand! It didn’t take us long to find a lovely spa offering Balinese massages, and another salon for the braiding. We swam at the local beach in the afternoon and had dinner at a resort with tables on the grey-sand beach. In all honesty, the swim was a little disappointing - there was lots of not-particularly-pleasant algae in the water, and bits of rubbish. We knew it was part of a marine reserve and had read good things about snorkelling off the beach so resolved to find a better spot later in the week. All in all though, Eleanor felt well-celebrated and we had a great day!

As we’d noticed driving in, Pemuteran is well-established for tourism - it is known for its boutique accommodation and excellent diving.  What we hadn’t expected was how quiet it would be on our first day or two (a Monday and Tuesday), many restaurants were empty and we saw few other visitors. It did get busier as the weekend approached but was never bustling with tourists. Most people come from Europe, especially Russia, Ukraine, France and Switzerland. Apparently it isn’t really on the Australian radar. I heard a couple of people speculating that this is due to the distance from the airport in Denpasar and the lack of surf. It may all change as negotiations are underway with land owners and residents to build a big airport for the north of Bali, near Singaraja, which is due to open in 2025 and will make it much more accessible. We’re so pleased to have visited now!

Next up was a snorkelling day trip around Pulau Menjangan. This area reputedly has the best snorkelling in Bali, a prime factor in us choosing to visit, so we were really looking forward to seeing it for ourselves. And it really was amazing! Lots of beautiful coral and loads of fish. We even heard a fish eating coral through the water. This area is also part of the National Park reserve. We enjoyed it so much we did a second trip later in the week! On the first trip we were with a Singaporean couple and on the second a Ukrainian couple and a French father and daughter - great company, especially the second trip when we all talked about our home countries and travels. 


Both times, our guide reminded us not to stand on the reef or to touch/take anything. Sadly though other groups felt feel to stand and touch. To the point that Adrian said something to one guy, who had the good grace to look sheepish and desist. Hopefully if tourism does increase with the new airport they’ll really look after the coral!

Surf school

Our second day at Selong Blanak was beautifully sunny. Adrian and I had seen a little too much sun the day before (tricked by the cloud!) so we decided that securing a raised beach hut with bean bags would be a good plan. We grabbed one before breakfast and used it as our base for the day. It was the perfect spot -  dry, shady and reasonably sand-free. 

Our beach is lined with surf schools, unsurprising given that it is be a great beach for learning with its reasonably gentle breaking waves. The kids were keen on a lesson, so they had a couple of hours. Adrian decided to give it a go while I watched from the beach. Eleanor and Leo loved it and were both able to get up by the end. Adrian showed great perseverance! But perhaps needs to work on his balance. And coordination. And core strength. His teacher was very patient!

The kids and I swam and hung out in the beach hut for the afternoon while Adrian went on a bit of a wander outside the resort. It was pretty much just rural Lombok, humbling to see how different local lives are to ours back in New Zealand, but also good for the soul to relearn again how a smile and a friendly ‘Salam’ (‘hello’ in Bahasa Indonesian) can help cross a few boundaries.

After sunset, as the tide came in, Eleanor, Leo, Fuyubi and Suraya spent ages creating the Great Wall of Lombok, a sand wall to keep the sea out. They worked together so beautifully on this exercise in futility. Their cries of ‘work harder’ and ‘survive’ had the adults in stitches!

We’re very sorry to be leaving - we feel like we’re just relaxing into our Selong Blanak routine and could have happily spent longer doing it. We’d love to come back one day, although suspect it will be more built up by the time we get the chance - Adrian noticed preparations for new buildings going on further down the beach and around the area.

On our last morning we squeezed in another quick surfing lesson for the kids. As the surf was bigger, they went down the very far end of the beach near the fishing village where the waves were a bit more manageable. The beach outside the resort is incredibly clean, but it turns out that it’s only because there’s a man who picks up the rubbish that’s come in on the tide. Down by the village there’s rubbish everywhere. 

The kids really enjoyed their lessons. It was amazing to see them progress to being able to stand and get stronger and more confident. Their instructors were kind, extremely patient and very good surfers themselves. Dan even demonstrated surfing a wave doing a headstand on the board (just wow!) - something for our kids to aspire to!


After the lesson it was a flight back to Bali for us. 

Four on Lombok

The morning we left Gili Air those who were okay to swim did so after breakfast while the parents packed up. We walked back to the port following our bags on the horse and cart then jumped on our boat for the quick trip to Lombok. I felt a little teary leaving Gili Air, and at the end of our fabulous time with the Lewis family - it always feels like you leave a little bit of you behind somewhere you’ve really enjoyed. Or maybe you take a little piece of it with you in your memories.

Fortunately there was more holiday to console me! The Lewis family dropped us off at Qunci Villas, near Mangsit, where we bid them a very fond farewell and ventured inside. It felt strangely quiet for the first day or so without them.

Qunci has a beach, public pools and we even had a private pool for our room. Everywhere we’ve stayed (except the Alron) has been  amazing, and this is no exception. It is our luxury stop of the trip and the expense means it is just the one night. So, we set about enjoying it. This meant swimming, reading and eating. Unfortunately Eleanor’s tummy still wasn’t right so she couldn’t appreciate the restaurant. It was a real shame as the food was fabulous - the chef is Italian. Even the kid’s ‘imagination pancakes’ breakfast, which came with lots of sweet toppings and a paintbrush, was lost on her.

The following morning we took the 1.5 hour trip to Selong Blanak. On the journey, the somewhat ghostly northern Lombok gave way to the bustling, largely undamaged south. Leo needed an urgent toilet stop, so the driver stopped and a kind man in a local shop let him into his house nearby. While Leo was busy, Adrian checked out his pottery. He particularly liked a vase with a jack o lantern face carved out of it. What a shame it wouldn’t travel well in our backpacks!

Arriving at Sempiak Villas, the very friendly man on reception showed us a map of the resort and took us straight to our villa. The way he spoke about the beach you could tell we were in for a wonderful treat! Most of the villas and the two pools are up on the hill, but ours ‘Kemiri’ was the only one near reception and thus very private and but a minute’s walk from the restaurant and beach. How handy!

We dropped our bags and explored the villa, which didn’t take long, then wandered off to find lunch. The restaurant is right on the stunning swimming and learners surf beach, a long stretch of perfect golden sand, beautiful blue water and breaking waves. A light sea breeze takes the edge off the heat providing a welcome relief!!

Other than a couple of little places offering tourist bungalows and a fishing village, this is the only accommodation on the beach so, while there were quite a few people around (they come in for the day too), it has a quiet feel. The man at the beach club told me that this time of year is usually busy and they have a big new year party on the beach, but this year tourists stayed away following the earthquake and there weren’t enough people for the party. Like Gili Air, they’re pleased to have anyone come and spend money as the financial impact on ordinary people has been significant and things are very tight. Some are struggling to feed their families. 

We knew immediately that we’d spend a lot of time on the sand, and we did. That first afternoon we relaxed in the villa while it rained for an hour so. I decided to give the afternoon yoga class, in an open shala near the beach, a go while Adrian took the kids to the pool. 

I was pleased to discover it was yin yoga, which I really enjoyed trying a couple of years ago when my friend, Anna Kale, was training to be an instructor. I went to one of the more energising morning classes on the platform up the hill with amazing views, but preferred yin in the afternoon, so went each day of our stay. Bliss!!! The instructor is incredible, so strong and flexible. She did some moves in the morning class that defied gravity and my sense of what the body can do. I didn’t try!

We spent much of the following day at the beach, in and out of the water. Eleanor and Leo had a great time in the waves (we all did!) - there’s a gentle slope to the deeper water and breakers that are big enough to be fun for kids, but not so big they worry their parents. 

That afternoon we headed up to the pool with Fuyubi and Suraya, eight and six year-old girls our kids had befriended pretty much the moment we arrived, and their mother, Mouna. Mouna and her German husband had been living in her homeland of Tunisia until the Arab Spring left them feeling unsafe, so they moved to Singapore, where they’ve lived for the past eight years. 

We really enjoyed chatting to Mouna on the side of the pool about Tunisia, their lives in Singapore and her job matching female entrepreneurs with investors. At least until the monkeys arrived, they were a distraction and a source of much entertainment and hilarity. One jumped from a roof onto a sun umbrella and was bounced into the trees below, much to our amusement. They are also a little intimidating so we mostly watched them from the safety of the pool. 


This is another amazing sunset spot. The sun was setting around 6.45pm so we were treated to some lovely skies over dinner each evening. I imagine the sunsets are even more spectacular outside of the rainy season when there’s less cloud. Over all we’ve been incredibly lucky with the weather, some overcast days and some awesome rains but nothing that’s stopped us doing what we wanted. Admittedly, we take some stopping.

A new year on Gili Air

We absolutely loved our time on Gili Air. It was filled with snorkelling, swimming, eating, relaxing and a few cocktails. Turns out a gin and tonic can actually be too strong. Who knew? 

Our villa is the perfect spot to rest and get respite from the heat, either in the pool, the air conditioned bedrooms or on the big blue couches under the fans in the living area. Just what we all needed. We started our days with a yummy freshly prepared breakfast, fresh fruit juice and lashings of Lombok coffee - strong gritty local coffee - for the adults. 

We noticed a few signs of the earthquake. The big hotel Ombok has no roof anymore, but its restaurant is still open and it has some downstairs rooms available. Not sure we’d want to stay there without an engineers report however. The local school had a big hole in its wall and rubble in the corridors. We also saw a note on a menu that a restaurant’s full range of food wasn’t available because many of their staff had returned to their home islands and not come back. So, the impact of the earthquake is everywhere when you look, but the locals have done a good job of making things less obviously broken.

Almost every day someone in our group wasn’t been 100% so we kept kids out of the pool at times and sometimes some of the group stayed home while others went out. On our first full day we had a quiet morning then the Lewis family, Adrian and Eleanor made their way to the other side of the island for lunch and some snorkelling off the beach. Adrian took a short cut that left him and Eleanor on the wrong side of the island. Eleanor in particular was thrilled to get a bonus and unexpected walk around half the island. Leo and I hung out under the fan at the villa - Leo slept off his rumbly tummy while I read. 

The next morning Jeremy went for a dive and Fiona and Ginny hung out at the villa while Adrian and I took the rest of the kids on a snorkelling expedition. The coral didn’t always seem to be in amazing condition, but snorkelling around sunken statues and with turtles were incredible experiences. It was also cool to see a tiny bit of Gili Meno when we stopped in for lunch. All four kids were amazing in the water, interested, confident and comfortable diving under for a closer look. 

That evening for dinner we wandered a couple of kilometres along the coast to “Boogil’s”, a resort that Eleanor and Adrian had inadvertently stumbled across the previous day. It was interesting to see another part of the island and such a lovely spot on the beach.The kids played sand versus sea on the beach and had a good boogie to the quite talented reggae band after dinner. It wasn’t lost on the band that their greatest supporters were all under 10! But at least they were really getting into it. You can’t be too choosy.

We’d decided to do a snorkelling trip together on the afternoon of New Year’s Eve. We went with a different provider but did a very similar trip. This time we saw some brilliant blue coral and enjoyed the statues at a quieter time of day. Unfortunately it was too murky to see turtles at the first site by Gili Trawangan but we managed to find a couple near Gili Meno, after a quick drink and play in the sea. The turtles are huge, slow and somehow incredibly graceful as they glide through the water. 

The sun was setting as we returned in the boat and treated us to beautiful views as we walked home along the sand. Another tick on the list of things we’d wanted to see on Gili Air. 

A combination of snorkelling tiredness and the return of the lurgy meant the kids were all in bed by about 9pm. The grown ups sat about listening to mixed melodies from our own speaker and the bars on the beach. Adrian made yummy cocktails (look out for his new blog, “Convenience Store Cocktails”) and we had a great evening laughing and sharing stories. Eleanor managed to wake up just before midnight so saw 2019 in with us while The Final Countdown belted out in the background. 

On New Year’s Day we slept in and had a very lazy morning in and around the pool. Periodic power cuts meant intermittent air conditioning in some rooms so those who were okay to get in the pool used it to cool down. The little shop at the end of our pathway had sold out of bintang and chippies, so it was obviously a busy night for them! (It wasn’t all us either). 

Fiona and I had long been planning a massage during the trip so that afternoon we sneaked away for some relaxation within our relaxation.  We had a blissful Balinese massage on a side-street then wandered to a beach-front spa for a pedicure. A great start to the new year! And I certainly slept well that night. 

We’ve loved Gili Air and could all happily stay a few more days. But in the morning we’re packing up and heading back to Lombok, while the Lewis’s head to the airport. Jeremy has work tomorrow.

The past nine days have been absolutely magic. The kids have had an amazing time together and watching them interact has been just wonderful. Adrian and I have thoroughly enjoyed the great conversation, company and cementing a great friendship with Fiona and Jeremy. 


The basis for this holiday was a BBQ conversation two years ago - we’re so thrilled we had that meal and that this trip is what came of it. We’re already secretly hoping for another jaunt somewhere together before too long. 

A walk, a water park and sickness

We’d saved exploring Ubud itself until our final day as it could be done on foot from our villa. We started with the monkey forest, a sanctuary called Mandala Wisata that’s home to 100’s of Balinese macaques. We discovered that they are excessively welcoming (quite scary!) when they think you might have food - one gave Imogen a real fright when it went for a little tile she was holding. It reminded us of a similar experience we’d had in Georgetown on our last trip!

The forest is dark and cool and felt a bit Indiana Jones-ish, especially with three temples and a stream in the middle. We also saw a monkey steal the bottle of hand sanitiser dangling from a tourist’s bag, which it proceeded to open and sample. Remarkably, it went back for seconds!

From there we wandered slowly up one of Ubud’s main shopping streets popping into shops and enjoying the scene. We really enjoyed the vibrancy, great food and good shopping mixed in with more tourist-tatty options. We arrived at Ubud palace hot and bothered (Eleanor particularly struggles with the heat) so Fiona, Jeremy, the kids and I set off for the villa while Adrian explored a bit more. 

By the time we got back we were sweaty, exhausted and ready for a cold drink. Stepping through the villa’s gate was blissful - the garden was shady and the pool inviting. We all changed and jumped in. Just what we needed!

The following morning we left for Kuta, in Denpasar, about 45 minutes away. Kuta apparently has an amazing beach and thriving nightlife, but we didn’t experience either - the only reason for our visit was Waterbom. 

After dropping our bags at the Alron Hotel (our recommendation: give it a miss) we grabbed lunch and went straight to the water park for the afternoon. It is self proclaimed as the third largest waterpark in the world. Wow! 

We all had an absolute ball. Adrian, Jeremy, Griffyn, Bethan and Leo went on every slide they could (the three kids weren’t heavy enough for the Climax, sucks to be them) from the slides in the kiddy pool to the ones where the floor drops away and down you plunge (not a chance of getting me on that one!!!). Fiona, Ginny, Eleanor and I had a more sedate afternoon trying out a couple of the bigger slides but spending most of our time in the kiddy pool and lazy river. We left when it closed at 6pm happy, exhilarated, exhausted and hungry. 

Back at the Alron, the Lewis’s conjoined rooms turned out to be at opposite ends of the corridor and our family room had two beds - a king and a single - the expectation being that three would sleep in the king. Adrian kindly gave me the single so I had a reasonable sleep but he was less lucky sleeping next to Leo, our starfish. Despite our less-than-positive review, the Alron served its purpose - somewhere to leave our bags and a bed (well, a third of a bed) for the night. 

The next morning was a big travel day: five legs and four modes of transport from Kuta to Gili Air. We drove to Ngurah Rai airport, flew to Lombok, drove to the ferry beach near Bangsal (we jumped on board from the sand), took a fast boat to Gili Air then walked to our accommodation. It was a long journey but we wanted to maximise our time on Gili Air so had decided to do it all in one go.  

Ginny was sick the night before and Leo had a funny tummy so arriving at our villa without significant incident a great relief. Ginny was sick on the flight and Leo in the car after the windy roads on Lombok, but we managed to keep it all fairly contained. Thank goodness for aeroplane sick bags! Top tip: grab lots of them, you’ll want them at some point.

The drive along Lombok’s Coast was winding and a little sad. There were eerily empty resorts and roadside stalls that looked as though they should have been busy, and concrete pads surrounded with piles of rubble. We weren’t certain that the recent earthquake was the cause of all of the ruin and disrepair, but suspected it was in most cases. We’ll see more when we head back that way after Gili Air. 

Arriving at the pier on Gili Air is one of those cool-in-retrospect moments. We were frazzled and very ready to put down our bags in our home for the next few days, so the 10-minute walk to the villa was functional rather than a pleasant wander. The island has mostly sand roads. There are no cars so transport is by foot, horse and cart, bike or the odd motorbike. Our bags traveled by horse and cart while we walked along behind - there were a few tummies that didn’t need any more jiggling!

Villa De’Coco is the accommodation we’d been looking forward to since April. Fiona has a picture of it as her screen saver at work and I’d often day dreamed about it. Finally we were in the photo!!!

The villa is stunning - light, bright, beautifully furnished and very comfortable. It is about 100 metres off the coast road, so very near the beach and restaurants. Lombok is predominantly Muslim so there was no sign of Galangun decorations that had been so prevalent in Bali, and we were able to hear the call to prayer from the mosque behind us. 


Dinner was the first of our many meals on the sand. That night Eleanor, Griffyn and Adrian were also unwell. We had no idea of the cause - the water park, something they’d all eaten or possibly the water in the ice - but it was pretty unpleasant. With Bali Belly (gastroenteritis by another name) all you can really do is wait it out. Ideally close to a loo!

Christmas in Ubud

Our first morning, Christmas Eve, started with a 4.30am wake up call from Leo soon followed by Eleanor - Bali is five hours behind New Zealand. While Leo and I continued to doze, Eleanor and Adrian decided to go for a wander around Ubud. 

Adrian: We found the area we were in (a kilometre or so away from centre of the Monkey Forest) had many lovely restaurants, cafes, health and wellbeing spas and street dogs. We had our first “dumb tourist” moment - a street still doing a brisk trade to motorbike riders for breakfast bakery type items caught our eye, so we gave Eleanor a 50,000 rupiah note (NZD $5 or so) to buy a little slice of carrot cake she’d admired. Eleanor waited very patiently for her turn, asked the lady for her item, said thank you in Bahasa Indonesia (the common language) and got a smile in return, then handed over the note. The smile turned into a sigh and an eye roll and after some fossicking about in the cash box, Eleanor was given 48,000 in change! Turns out the going rate for a slice of cake is 20 cents. We learned our lesson though so on the way home we bought 4 more for the other kids and this time we had the right change.

Once we were all up and about, the kids and various parents had what became a daily pre-breakfast swim. We had three full days in Ubud and hadn’t talked much about what we wanted to do. Adrian had done a bit of reading and had some ideas so over breakfast we came up with a plan. We decided to do the longer trips to temples and rice fields on the first couple of days and stick around Ubud on the third, thinking drivers might be harder to come by as they’d be busy celebrating Galungan. 

So, we called Topan and found another driver, Scooby, to take us all to Pura Besikih temple an hour or so up Mount Agung volcano. Our temple tickets included a motorbike ride up the hill to the gates so on we jumped on in ones and twos for a ride up the hill. Leo and Griffyn were a little nervous about the idea, but later decided that they’d quite like a job ferrying passengers up to the temple. An option for their OE’s perhaps!

Stepping off the bikes was quite an experience. We were immediately mobbed by women selling offerings for the temple. It always takes a day or two to find our feet somewhere new and even when I have some idea of what to expect, moments like these take me by surprise. Still, they’re the first steps  though in getting ourselves acclimatised. Eventually we beat them off by buying ridiculously overpriced postcards and offerings for the temple statues.

Eventually we all arrived and managed to find our way through the crowd and up to the temple where we took Topan’s advice on how to politely refuse a guide. The temples themselves are a complex of steps and buildings winding up the volcano. It was warm and overcast, and felt like it might rain which added to the atmosphere. We found some amusement in watching people doing their Instagram photo shoots on the temple steps. Turns out getting the right shot can be a time consuming activity. So often children are left to fend for themselves while Dad gets the perfect shot of Mum looking fabulous!

On the way to our lunch stop, we saw a gathering of motorbikes and circle of men. Topan told us it was cockfighting, which is apparently a popular pastime on Bali. Lunch was at a buffet restaurant overlooking picturesque rice fields. In the afternoon we popped into the Klungkung palace for a quick look around. My favourite was the 1970s or 80s dioramas depicting the history of Bali and the musty-smelling museum containing all sorts of weapons and treasure. It was raining by then so the kids had a damp game of human chess on the pavers. 

That evening we’d arranged for someone to come in and make us cocktails for a couple of hours in the joglo. What a fantastic idea that was!! The pina coladas were absolutely delicious and an accidental rum-instead-of-gin and tonic opened our eyes to a whole new drink we’ll look forward to perfecting at home. 

Christmas morning brought great excitement to the Parker and Lewis families. Father Christmas managed to find us in Indonesia so there were presents in stockings and a couple more under the tree. Father Christmas brought some (fairly forgettable but useful!) clothes and a card game each, Loot and Five Crowns, which have provided hours of entertainment. Team ‘loot’ - Bethan and Jo - were pretty formidable so the cry of ‘loooot’ was often heard as we claimed more merchant ships. In fact we’ve adopted it as a part of the game, so  continue to call ‘loooot’ when claiming our gold. 

The Lewis’s gave Eleanor and Leo an inflatable dolphin and orca, named Durpy Dolphin and Grey Sea, which proved incredibly popular in the pool.

That morning we visited Jatuliweh rice fields. They’re a World Heritage site and are still operating. They’re truly amazing. We walked the trail through the fields and watched people working on the rice at various points in its lifecycle. It’s a really stunning spot. Our kids found the heat a bit hard going but everyone enjoyed it. 

Our afternoon stop was a butterfly park where we saw lots of bright coloured butterflies and duller moths. The highlight was the hatchery where we watched a butterfly emerge from its chrysalis. Centres like this probably do make a big difference to the populations of endangered species, but they definitely allow more human intervention - from helping them to hatch (ours wasn’t hanging so didn’t have the benefit of gravity to help it to emerge) to giving the newly hatched butterflies to people to hold. 

That afternoon we returned to the villa for more swimming and a delicious three-course Christmas meal cooked for us at the villa by a wonderful freelance chef named Hani. A really special way to spend Christmas Day - good friends, memorable things to do and a really yummy meal. 


Watching the kids connect and reconnect has been wonderful. Griffyn and Leo in particular are sharing a room and barely leave each other’s side from morning to night. They’ve even started ordering the same food at meal times. The girls are a little less overtly smitten but enjoy each other’s company nonetheless. 

On our way

Almost two years ago, our friends the Lewis family left Pukerua Bay for Singapore. Before they left we’d dreamed about catching up somewhere exotic. Initial discussions centred around Nikoi Island in Singapore, but earlier this year we decided to meet in Indonesia over Christmas and New Year instead, and have spent much of this year planning our adventure. 

We Parkers all arrived at the end of the year tired and well-and-truly ready for a break. So, to our great excitement school finished, work finished and we were finally on our way the very next day. We’d had a lovely (and delicious!) early Christmas with my family a couple of weeks earlier and were completely spoiled. We’d delivered Thistle the dog, Hodgson the cat and Squeaks the mouse to their holiday destinations. Thistle and Squeaks are at their caring and comfortable home-away-from home in Plimmerton (Mum and Dad’s), while Hodgie is at the cattery around the corner in Pukerua Bay - he too is well cared for and he’s always extra-friendly for a week or two after we get home. 

Our first stop on the trip was an overnight stay in Sydney. We took the opportunity to have dinner with our London friends, the Kassis family. We met at antenatal classes 10 years ago and last saw them in late 2015. Eleanor and their eldest daughter, Nadine, are two days apart in age and have remained great friends since sharing a nanny in London, so it was incredibly special to see the girls together again after three years. It was also lovely to see Leo and their son Anton bond over Lego and to see their youngest daughter Lina so grown up - she was about 18 months last time we visited. And of course we loved catching up on news with Renee and Fadi. I love how years can pass without seeing good friends but somehow you pick up exactly where you left off!

The following morning it was straight to the airport for our flight. Stepping from the plane onto the ramp at Denpasar airport, we walked through a wall of heat before hitting the air conditioning. Who hoo! I always find passport control in a new country interesting, it’s your first introduction to how things work, but seems so different to real life once you leave the airport. Denpasar airport is pretty basic, passport control is a manual process and about three flights arrived within 30 minutes of each other so the queue was long and slow moving. 

Walking into the arrivals hall I was travel-weary, and excited for what we were about to experience. Denpasar arrivals didn’t disappoint in terms of the heat and general chaos. I was sweating within five minutes and there were so many drivers with signs meeting the flights, that we needed to hunt for ours. We were pleased to have booked a transfer as it allowed us to avoid the mad muddle of drivers. 

Topan, our driver, was there with a sign, big smile and an air conditioned car so it wasn’t long before we were on the road for our 1.5 hour drive to Ubud. Topan is a great driver, friendly, informative and safe. He navigated the motorbikes, cars, vans and dogs with patience and ease. Horns are every bit as useful as indicators here, and are possibly used more often. 

I’d imagined leaving Denpasar and driving through countryside but the route was built up the entire way. We drove past temples being prepared with dressed statues and decorated with penjor for the Galungan due to start on 26 December. Galungan is a 10-day long Hindu festival during which the gods come to earth and people celebrate with feasts and visiting their families. It ends with Kuningan, when they farewell the gods. 

There were all manner of shops - pets, furniture, food, stone art... Often the motorbikes are laden with people and/or tools/shopping. We even saw someone riding along carrying a ladder. Pretty impressive while weaving in and out of traffic! Helmet use seems to be good practice, most people wear them but sometimes drivers and often passengers, including children, don’t. 

Villa Toya was a wonderful surprise. The villa itself was bigger than we’d expected - lots of room for nine! - and the garden with pool, trampoline, swing, large chess set and joglo, an open outdoor shelter, had plenty to amuse us. 

Eka and Wayan greeted us with coconut water and showed us the ins and outs of the house, arrangements for breakfast (which they cooked for us each morning) and other useful things to know. It was great to learn that they recycle and to see our drinks come with reusable bamboo or metal straws! They also had big water containers so we were able to fill our drink bottles and avoid buying plastic ones. 

Eleanor and Leo were splashing about in the pool within minutes of arriving, while we sampled our first Bintangs on the loungers. We were thrilled to see the Lewis family - Fiona and Jeremy and their children Griffyn, Bethan (who are close to Eleanor and Leo in age) and Imogen who is five - when they drove up about an hour later. We all had a bit to catch up on but took it slowly that first evening with a good chat over a couple of Bintangs and take-aways in the joglo, followed by an early night.